Wednesday, June 11, 2025

Book Review: The White Octopus Hotel by Alexandra Bell

The White Octopus HotelThe White Octopus Hotel by Alexandra Bell
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Have you ever had a tragedy that so marked you that you felt your life never progressed beyond that moment? It is an all too common experience of survivors of war or other less dramatic but equally tragic events. The protagonists of this story are stuck in the process of living when they don't feel that they deserve to be, and somehow through the miracle of The White Octopus Hotel they find a way to forgive themselves and learn to move on. Eve is a 28 year old art curator who has been literally haunted by an event that happened on her 4th birthday. She feels that it is her fault that her family broke up, that her mother and she can't be in the same room, that she deserves no joy in her life. One day, an elderly man comes to her and gives her a white octopus figurine. She can't understand why the octopus looks like the pictures she has been drawing for as long as she can remember, and she feels compelled to figure out where the octopus comes from. The story reminds me of Audrey Niffenegger's Time Traveler's Wife in some ways, though this story is more about self-love and forgiveness being required in order to allow yourself to love another than a traditional love story. As soon as I finished it, I felt compelled to go back and see if I could see the foreshadowing by rereading it, and that was as enjoyable as reading it the first time. The visuals are so well written that I felt like I could imagine the hotel in my mind. There are quite a few mysteries that are never resolved by the end of the book, such as where the White Octopus Hotel came from originally, and who the man behind the curtain is, but magic realism doesn't require its magic to be explained.

Websitehttps://www.alex-bell.com/ Alexandra Bell signed her first book deal at nineteen and has since written multiple books for adults and young people. She works for a legal advice charity and lives in Hampshire with her husband, sons and Sphynx cats. She also writes as Alex Bell.

Book Review: Witchy Stitching, by Meg Black

Witchy Stitching: 25 Patterns to Haunt Your HomeWitchy Stitching: 25 Patterns to Haunt Your Home by Meg Black
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I thoroughly enjoyed Witchy Stitching. It was one of the best cross stitch books I have seen, providing basic instructions and additional comments and suggestions for intermediate stitchers. The patterns are grouped into thematic chapters, and each begins with a bookmark. There are plenty of different patterns in a variety of difficulties, though none are particularly difficult. One of the things I most liked about the patterns was the ease of identifying colors, so that they were identified both by a symbol and a black/red color gradation, which makes the stitches easy to identify, even on my tiny screen. In addition, each line horizontally and vertically were numbered, so it made it easier to follow the pattern. I liked this so much that I plan on ordering one for my best friend and another for myself.

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Sunday, June 1, 2025

Book Review: Dead of Summer, Jessa Maxwell

This was a book that started slowly and picked up speed like a boulder running down a hill, moving ever faster to the conclusion. The author's ability to use the language to characterize different cultural and economic groups was excellent; being able to place a character according to the shoes that were being worn or the drink they ordered. The setting in the New York City art scene didn't capture me, but as they moved into the vacation area it was easier for me to relate. I had difficulty initially getting into the story , but I'm glad that I didn't stop because about half way in I was on a roller coaster of a ride trying to figure out what crime, if any, was done, if anyone would be held accountable and if another crime was going to happen before the end of the book. I did find most of the characters difficult to empathize with; they are either self-absorbed because of their wealth and power or self absorbed because of their history and their desire to get to wealth and power by trying to 'fit in'. The book reminds you that everyone has secrets and trauma, being rich just allows you to hide it better. The final third of the book was difficult to put down, and I found myself wondering what happened to all the characters afterward. It seemed that the author might have benefitted from asking an attorney about certain events because I'm not certain that certain events would work the way they were presented. I was grateful to Netgalley for allowing me to read this book in exchange for writing an honest review. According to Amazon.com, Jessa Maxwell is the nationally bestselling author of The Golden Spoon, I Need You to Read This, and Dead of Summer. She is also the author and illustrator of five picture books for children. Her comics and cartoons have been published in The New Yorker and The New York Times and her writing has been published in Slate, Marie Claire, and many others. She now lives in Jamestown, Rhode Island, with her husband, two cats and three-legged dog.

Friday, May 23, 2025

I, Medusa by Ayana Gray

I am very grateful to Net Galley and to Ayana Gray for allowing me to read her newest book in exchange for an honest review. This is her first book for an adult audience; previously she has written a trilogy for young adult readers; Beasts of Prey, Beasts of Ruin and Beasts of War. I've never read them, but her current book has made me curious about them and I intend to seek them out. Looking at the title of the book, I realized that I knew little about Medusa outside of the minor part she played in Ray Harryhausen's 1981 movie "Clash of the Titans", starring Harry Hamlin. As a Science fiction and fantasy geek as a child, I must have watched that a dozen times on television. Harryhausen's monsters were some of the best, pre-CGI. What surprised me is that I never wondered why Medusa was who she was or why the Greek gods were so desperate to kill a monster who wasn't actually bothering anyone. This is Medusa's story, more of a tragedy than a story of a monster. I was pleased that Ms. Gray stayed within the framework of the early legends; like all predominantly oral histories, the framework is the same but the details change according to the flavor of the teller and the moral of the story.
Medusa is the only mortal daughter of sea gods that existed long before the Greek gods gained ascendancy and were supplanted by them in power and worship. Her parents, two immortal sisters and a few slaves are now confined to a very comfortable but isolated island in the ocean. She has never known any other life unlike they rest of her family and as a result, experiences their position and lot in life differently. She is unaware of a number of family secrets that would have given her context and perhaps would have prevented the tragedy. Medusa is accutely aware of the abuses of power between greater and lesser gods, immortals and mortals, men and women. She often feels compelled to defend those who cannot defend themselves, but her choices of who and how she defends the defenseless tends to be the shortsighted and impulsive reactions of a mortal teen who still has more than mortal abilities. Even though she tries to do the right thing for the right reasons, like most adolescents her impulsiveness and unwillingness to listen to those wiser than her contribute to her tragic ending. Ms. Gray's worldbuilding is beautifully constructed without being overly detailed, and it reminds me of a Patricia Briggs book; Ms. Brigg's Mercy Thompson books combine mortal, immortal and godlike characters and the ways in which their approach to life is informed by their lifespan. The characters felt real to me; I could recognize the absolute power of an abusive parent in her description of Pharys and Ceno. Medusa's anger at the unfairness of the world reminds me of a young adult trying desperately to understand the rules of adulthood while feeling opressed by their own lack of status. This is what really attracted me to the book; not just the reclaiming of a myth, but that it describes the struggle to develop a sense of personal agency in a world that all too often still defines women by their roles as children, wives and mothers and denies them the sense of independence that men are encouraged to have. Women are rarely seen as heroes. The historic Medusa was originally seen as a protective figure and often guarded the fronts of houses prior to the Greek gods. Her protective nature is clear in Ms. Gray's characterization of Medusa. Her betrayal by gods more powerful and older than she is an essential part of the myth, but this book gives her a voice that the myth does not. I am quite impressed that she chose not to name Medusa's "heroic" killer; in this story is more of an assasin than a hero. At some points I felt that she was perhaps more naive than is reasonable, such as being completely unaware of the mechanics of sex at 17; even islands in the ocean have small animals and the slaves on the island that procreate even if her parents and siblings don't. Despite this, I thing this would be an excellent book to discuss at a book club; it's description of power dynamics between men and women is still applicable in many ways (and reminds me of certain political situations that have occurred in recent memory).

Sunday, May 18, 2025

Well I'm getting a little better at this

Last week I made a bunch of cards for Mother's Day and took pictures of a few, but didn't get them on the blog, although I think I did put a few on Instagram. I haven't fully embraced consistency because it's hard to do things just for me. As a therapist/psychologist associate, I should be more willing to put my needs first, but I am enough of my mother's daughter to feel guilty doing something just for me. I am trying to reframe my artistic activities as worthwhile, and hopefully I will sell more cards at the fountain pen show in July. I might make more to sell at one of the local art and craft stores if they start to be popular.
I have three people to make cards for tomorrow; a 6 year old who likes the color red, Spiderman and cooking, and his grumpy father and grandfather, all of them born one day (and a number of years, of course) apart. I haven't thought of a good design for all of them, but the little one will get an interactive card of some sort, and his father will get a snarky one because we both have obnoxious senses of humor.

These are my cards for Simon Says Stamp (Things with Wings) and Taylored Expressions Challenges: 
Taylored Expressions: Flit and Flutter Hummingbird Die Set, Fresh Cut Flowers Die, Square Tear off Calendar for 2026
Paper: Background by Paper Rose, Hummingbirds Simon Says Stamp color blend assortment, plain paper from stash


 
Embossing folder: Simon Says Stamp Cherry Blossom, Shimmer Vellum, Tim Holtz Picket Fence Distress ink, Tim Holtz Tiny Blending Tool
Butterfly stamp and die from Virtual Stamp Joy 2025, Simon Says Stamp Matte Gold cardstock, Tim Holtz Uncharted Mariner, Picked Raspberry Distress Inks

Sunday, April 27, 2025

Florals and calendars

I did the Taylored Expressions 2025 card class recently and they had some cards that turned into calendars that also had a small post-it style note card on it. I decided to try doing some of them for the Portland Fountain Pen show. These are a couple that I made this week, featuring paper from last month's Simon Says Stamp card kit and Taylored Expression calendars. The minis will fit on a 3 x 3 inch base, which I used champagne gold card stock for. The adhesive notepad was an extra from an old Cocoa Daisy box, and the flowers are from Taylored Expressions. 




On this one, the front of the card is the back of the calendar. The images are from the Simon Says Stamp April kit. I was experimenting with watercolor and varying the color of the embossing to try to figure out which one looks best on which images. This one is embossing powder from Tim Holtz in pumice stone.

This next card I especially like because you have two places for a message; the first one inside and a hidden one under the front easel, which also sets up the florals in a very organic way. 



This last on is from the same florals as above, but I used a pre-embossed front from an old card base from JoAnns to ink blend and then used the 'bloom' as the grounding of the bouquet.



Saturday, April 19, 2025

Easter Blessings

 

Man, I am BAD at this. It's not that I have not done any other submissions to the Simon Says Stamp Blog (or any other, but that is the one I am most likely to submit to), but a lot of them have just been on Instagram. I'm going to try to post these to Instagram as well, but I am trying to be more descriptive, and these were part of a project at church.


For the last three years, our church has made Easter and Christmas cards for the people at the care facility, Weiser Cascadia Care Home. This year 6 people from St. Luke's Episcopal church made 48 cards in one morning. We wanted to make certain that whether or not they had family, every resident knew that someone was thinking of them on Easter. These are a few of the cards I made. The prompt for Simon Says Stamps Monday Challenge this week was "sweet treats". Though carrots are a vegetable, anyone who has ever had carrot cake knows that carrots are sweet, and it gives me a chance to show off these cards. I also happen to remember beinng absolutely addicted to Cadbury Eggs as a child, though I can't abide them at this point in my life. Somehow they're just too sweet and have no flavor other than sweet, but I remember  the yellow and white parts of the fondant interior had distinct flavors. 

I am in love with the "Big Pickup" stamps from Honeybee Stamps. The truck is lovely whether you pick the front or back view, and they sell a variety of stamps to help accessorize the truck. The carrots and eggs and bunny are all from the "loads of spring" add-on set. They were all colored with alcohol markers, but I use everything from Copic, Ohuhu and Olo, so I can't really tell you what colors I used.


The bottom wood grain is actually a stamp from Taylored Expressions. It is called "Shiplap background stamp, and that's one of my favorite basic backgrounds as red rubber stamps. The Happy Easter is from Simon Says Stamps Hoppy Easter.